Tuesday, January 4, 2011

Teens Just Can't Get Enough Sleep !

Some people just can't get themselves to sleep even if they want to. Teen-agers are not exempted from getting sleep problems not only because they are usually overloaded with school projects which take most of their sleeping time. Even with all the hustle and bustle that comes with school, teenagers' normally have enough adrenalin to last them till the wee hours of the morning.
Still, frequent sleep deprivation can cause problems even for the most healthy and vibrant youngster. Young people who experience sleep deficit have difficulty concentrating, studying, and working effectively. Long-term sleep deprivation can actually lead to emotional problems like depression.
According to recent studies, teenagers need 8½ to more than 9 hours of sleep every night. However, during the stage of adolescence, the body's internal biological clock, also known as circadian rhythm, is reset. The changes in the circadian rhythm makes them fall asleep later at night and wake up later in the morning. Experts attribute this change in the circadian rhythm to the fact that the brain hormone called melatonin is produced later at night in teens. Melatonin is released earlier in the night among kids and adults. Also, the delay in the sleep–wake cycle can worsen and possibly affect a person's daily performance at school or at work. This is called the delayed sleep phase syndrome.
Aside from changes in their body clocks, young people may also lose sleep due to insomnia, or the inability to fall asleep or staying asleep, which is commonly caused by stress. But there are other factors which may cause insomnia. These include physical discomfort such as stuffy nose due to colds or headaches; emotional problems like family issues or relationship troubles; and uncomfortable sleeping conditions, such as lying in a room that is too hot, cold, or noisy. Trying to sleep in a cramped bed or using pillows that are too soft or too firm also contributes to sleep deprivation.
Insomnia is also one of the most common problems associated with sleep deprivation. This sleeping problem lasts for a long period of time without relief. Chronic insomnia can be caused by a number of different problems, including medical conditions, mental health problems, medication side effects, or substance abuse. In extreme cases, chronic insomnia may lead to psychophysiologic insomnia --- a condition where a person's mind and body are severely affected by sleep deprivation. Sufferers of chronic insomnia are advised to seek help the help of physicians, therapists, or counselors for their condition.
A nightmare is a common experience among teens which can disrupt sleep patterns. Certain medications can trigger nightmares. Drugs and alcohol can also cause sleep altering patterns. However, stress and anxiety can also trigger nightmares. If nightmares interfere with sleep, it's time to talk to medical health professionals. Other conditions that can affect sleep in young people include Periodic Limb Disorder, Restless Legs Syndrome, Obstructive Sleep Apnea, Reflux, Narcolepsy, and Sleepwalking.
When there's a feeling of fatigue even after getting enough rest, a consultation with your doctor is advised. Excessive fatigue can be due to a number of health reasons, not just a sleep disorder. Doctors can do a physical examination and may review a person's medical history when they suspect the presence of other conditions that interfere with sleep.
Some sleep disorders can be treated with over-the-counter sleeping pills while others can be addressed through special therapy meant to reset a person's body clock. Teens are encouraged to make lifestyle changes that promote good sleeping habits such as avoiding playing video games or watching TV before sleeping, as well as drinking too much coffee at nighttime.


Why Vampire Movies are Coo

So what makes vampires such a cool topic for movies? There are a lot of them. Action movies. Horror. Romance. Teen Romance. Blood-suckers are everywhere the silver screen crackles.

If you take into account the cultural basis for the “tall, dark, and mysterious stranger in the night,” the chilling image of a blood-sucking immortal with powers beyond humankind is pretty romantic. And sexy. Vampires in some areas of the world commanded fear and respect as evil monsters that hunt in the night. But there has also always been a slightly morbid fascination with this creature. An allure that draws us in and fascinates us.

Much of the vampire mythos has to do with the ability to have and take anything you want… including people. This is a primal sexual instinct in us primates and to glorify such a power and right is a bit of our own egotistic dreaming coming out in our literature and films.

But let’s face it, among all the super-hero type mythical creatures, the vampire has always remained sexy. They don’t hulk out into beast form (though some have that demonic bat-form thing) and they don’t shake a magic wand around. They just kill. And drink blood. And look damn good doing it!

Vampire movies will always dominate because we’ll always want to see our fantasies of being immortal played out in dark, Gothic spectacles of power. It’s carnal desires dressed up in the mystery of the unknown. The fantasy of true immortality looks so much cooler when it's wearing a cape!




Best Friends

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Making Friends or Reconnecting With Old Ones

How to make, re-make or revive old friendships.

Going back to school is unnerving for so many reasons but among the most stressful is the "friendship connection". Over the long summer break lots of people lose touch with their school friends and reconnecting can be hard and confusing, especially if others in your "group" have stayed in touch. It is also really confusing, and a bit overwhelming, if you are in a situation to make new friends - be it at a new school or at your old one.

When getting back in touch with old friends listening is the key. Listen to what they did over the summer so that you know the stories almost as well as if you had been there yourself. Ask questions ("No way! That didn't really happen, did it?"), act excited to hear the news (even if it is actually really dull) and don't rock the boat with too much self pity (I wish I was there but since I wasn't I am going to pout and get quiet when you talk about it...). Your friends are sure to have missed you, just make sure they aren't too aware that you missed out on some group memories. Breaks from, school are notorious bonding sessions for friends, you need to make sure that you don't get left out in the cold.

Making new friends is a whole different story. You need to focus on listening, that much is the same, but you can't ever hope to be a part of those memories. You don't know the people well enough for them to have been aware of your absence. Instead, when you listen, find threads of common interests and use them to bond yourself to the new people. Talk about the things you have in common and stay away from the things you don't. Get to know what kind of people they are and what they do for fun and decide if you can really fit in to their "groove" before solidifying any friendships. Nothing is worse than getting in with a group only to find you don't really like them. "Friendly yet cautious" should be your motto when looking to make new connections.

If life has thrown you a friendly curve and you aren't quite sure how to handle it don't come undone. Take a deep breath and look over or "friendship building tips". These tips are guaranteed to help you navigate this crazy thing called friendship.

Six Friendship Rules to Live By

Friendship advice and tips for teens

1. Be Yourself

It may seem like a no-brainer, but a lot of teens struggle not to lose their identity once they become part of a group of friends. Though who you are is always changing, especially during your teenage years, some aspects of your personality will stay pretty much the same. Figure out what those things are and think hard about who you want to be, then present yourself honestly and genuinely to the people you hang around with.

Sometimes you're going to disagree or not be the most popular member of the group. However, you will always feel you've been true to yourself -- and that you haven't become somebody else's clone.

2. Avoid Gossip

Friends don't spread rumors about other friends -- even within their own group. If you've heard something shocking about someone you're friends with, find a considerate way of asking them about it personally.

If you're not sure how to talk to them about it, seek the advice of one other trusted friend, but don't let the discussion turn into a free-for-all about everything you don't like about the person. You certainly wouldn't be happy if someone did that to you, so set a good example for others -- and for yourself.

3. Defend Your Friends

At some point, somebody you're not tight with is going to question the integrity of one of your friends. It's important to find out both sides of the story in a situation like this, but it's also a good chance to show your friend that you have faith in them by standing up for their reputation. Whenever you can, be respectful of the other person's question or criticism but emphasize that your friend is a good person who deserves the respect of others, even when they make mistakes.

4. Protect Your Friends

When a friend of yours is making not-so-great decisions -- whether it's about drugs, alcohol, studying or dating -- do your best to look out for them. This doesn't mean telling them what to do constantly, but you can offer gentle advice and guidance from time to time.

If you give advice in a caring way that shows you value your friend and respect their feelings and wishes, they're much more likely to pay attention. Chances are, what you think means a lot to them, and you can be a good influence.

5. Be Careful About Boyfriends and Girlfriends

It's a good rule of thumb to stray away from dating the exes of your friends. It's an even better rule of thumb to avoid dating the people your friends have crushes on -- or people who have turned down your friends for dates. Even if your friend gives you the go-ahead, wait a while to get involved with someone who broke their heart or betrayed their confidence.

6. Return the Favor

There are times when a friend will lend you a jacket, a textbook or a shoulder to cry on. A good friend will pick you up when you're stuck in a rainstorm and listen patiently when you share a problem with them. Be sure that you're equally as generous with your time, your emotions and your possessions. People will take notice, and it's something to feel good about.

Guide to love letters

You love him/her but don't know how to say it. The minute you see your beloved, your tongue gets stuck. So what do you do? Simple, write a love letter. Sure, in the age of email and fax, writing love letters seems to be completely passé but trust us, the formula still works. Even if you are going steady but live away from your partner, a handwritten letter is sure the please the daylights out of her. Nothing can match the impact of well-written letter that genuinely expresses your feelings for your beloved. So here are some tips to write a letter full of romance and desire.

Be true. The letter will express your feelings. So if you don't feel strongly enough, your love letter won't ring true. So write only what you feel in your heart.

Use good paper. Don't pen your feelings on some cheap white notepad. Use some good quality handmade paper for a romantic effect.

Write with your hand. Printouts are for college projects. Yes, there is spell check on the computer but a small handwritten note has more impact than a long, long typewritten impersonal printout. If you don't trust your handwriting, ask a friend to write it down.

Picture makes perfect. If you have it, add a nice photograph of
you and your partner to the letter. It'll make the reader think of you fondly.

Spell check. Please prepare a rough draft of your letter before you make a fair copy. You might expect your partner to love you with all your flaws but don't expect him/her to digest your spelling mistakes.

Write from your heart. Do not use complicated or archaic words where simple words will do. Also avoid poetry, it can be romantic but it can also turn people off.

Don't be too familiar. If you know him/her for just a couple of weeks you might consider using, "Dear.." Or "Hey." You don't want to go overboard by saying "my dearest" or "only mine." The reader might think you are getting too close for comfort.

Try whacky. Have fun while writing your letter. Don't be too soppy and romantic. You can try a whacky or comic tone too. Your letter should have the power to bring a smile to your beloved's face. What do you know, s/he just might keep it for a lifetime.